tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8660383860724401867.post5133587272603280355..comments2023-06-24T10:57:54.741-04:00Comments on From Mundane To Mistress: When nothing goes right...go left!Natali Noirhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16118844684446439081noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8660383860724401867.post-21044097818023697652015-06-14T09:34:52.672-04:002015-06-14T09:34:52.672-04:00Saw you on my list and I am so glad I stopped in (...Saw you on my list and I am so glad I stopped in (yes, late- but I'm here =)<br /><br />I can very much see your side here. Vanilla life takes time and effort- it pays the bills. Using the time and energy you have left to enjoy your kink side can be a struggle when you feel you have NO time or energy. That is a big struggle on my sub side too. We have made a lot of changes recently to create less of a distinction between our vanilla and kink sides- it's really helping us both.<br /><br />I think living poly would make my head spin! I give you credit for even trying to juggle it all. Hope things are improving for you, I look forward to following your story!<br /><br />XOXO PearlPearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8660383860724401867.post-8151761422914541782015-05-11T18:37:41.853-04:002015-05-11T18:37:41.853-04:00Thanks Tori & Misty! Just knowing that others ...Thanks Tori & Misty! Just knowing that others understand the struggle helps a bit. We're working on a fix :)Natali Noirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16118844684446439081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8660383860724401867.post-37410843228470759802015-05-05T13:33:43.326-04:002015-05-05T13:33:43.326-04:00Stopped by to say thanks for following me.
We are...Stopped by to say thanks for following me.<br /><br />We are still new to all of this, therefore no slumps of this sort for us, yet, but it is a lot of work...and having two of me, well, I wouldn't want that job! lol. <br /><br />Maybe something new is in order? <br /><br />I also agree with tori, it comes from both sides. Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8660383860724401867.post-4783219988038801662015-05-04T19:49:06.222-04:002015-05-04T19:49:06.222-04:00From a submissive point of view, i think it takes ...From a submissive point of view, i think it takes work from both to keep things fresh or rather to keep the kink thriving.<br /><br />I dont think its topping from the bottom for the submissive to initiate/suggest play, the dominant can say no....an option i dont have lol<br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.com