From Mundane To Mistress

Kick the sub not the bucket

Date: Wednesday, February 05, 2014

I was thinking of what I'd like to add to my BDSM Bucket list for 2014 and stumbled upon this Sex Bucket List at The Bad Girl's Bible Sex Bucket List. I've bolded the ones I've completed, there are quite a few. Skip to the bottom to see how many and what the sub and I have in store for the year!

The Bad Girl’s Bible Sex Bucket List

Wake your partner up with a handjob/fingering
Kiss a girl
Sex with a celebrity
Sex without kissing
Loud, vocal, screaming sex
Masturbate
Finger yourself
Use a vibrator
Use a dildo
Insert a butt plug/anal beads while masturbating
Use Ben Wa balls
Masturbate to porn
Masturbate in candlelight
Take someones virginity
Have a one night stand
Get a fuck buddy – You’ll probably need to be single for this!
Sex with someone old enough to be your dad/mom
Sex with someone young enough to be your son/daughter – Remember to keep it legal!
Sex with someone of a different race
Sex with someone who speaks a different language to you
Sex with someone smaller than you
Sex with someone taller than you
Resistance sex – You act like you don’t want it while your man gropes, touches and molests you (don’t forget to use a safe word)
Sex with an escort
Sex with an Olympic athlete
Sex beside/under a large waterfall
Sex with a complete stranger
Listen to music on your stereo while having sex
Go see a male strip show
Have break up sex
Finger yourself or masturbate in front of someone without them knowing what you are doing – Try to keep it legal!
Go skinny dipping
Try every sex position – These 119 positions, with photos should get you going!
Try anal sex
Send/receive dirty text messages aka sex messages
Make a homemade porno – Trust is crucial if you make your own porno. You obviously don’t want it getting online!
Send/receive dirty pictures of each other – Again trust is crucial if you do this. You probably don’t want the whole world seeing naked pictures of you.
Talk dirty to each other
Have phone sex
Have Skype sex / cyber sex
Have snail mail sex – You can do this even if you live together, it makes for a very sexy surprise
Sex in the shower
Sex in the ocean
Sex on a beach – Bring a rug! Sand getting where it’s not supposed to be can be very painful
Sex in a car
Give your man a blowjob while he is driving – Unfortunately it’s hard for him to return the favour and eat you out while you are driving
Give your guy a handjob/finger your girl while they are driving
Sex in an elevator
Sex in the rain
Sex in the desert
Use ice/frozen berries in your mouth while giving oral sex
Sex in a hotel room
Sex in every room in your house
Sex in a forest
Sex in a department store changing room
Sex in public
Sex while wearing lingerie
Sex while in costume
Eat food off each other – Whipped cream and fruit is great for this (but a little sticky). Anything oily or fishy is not, it stinks.
Give your partner oral sex using syrup, cream, honey, lube or some other liquid on their genitals
Masturbate in front of each other
Mutually masturbate each other. He fingers you while you give him a handjob
Sex while blindfolded
Sex with restraints – Arms tied behind back or tied to the bed or tied and bent over a chair/table. Don’t forget to swap roles!
Spank and get spanked by hand
Make out in front of others in a busy place
Play strip poker
Sex on a boat – The smaller the better. Sex on a cruise ship is easy as everyone has a cabin. Sex on a dinghy on the other hand…
Use a vibrator during sex
Use a dildo during sex
Use a butt plug during sex
Toe sucking – You might want to wash them first!
Use anal beads during sex
Put a cock ring on your man during sex – Vibrating cock ring optional
Use a chastity device for at least a day before sex – On yourself, your partner or both of you
Use nipple clamps during sex – On you or on your partner or on both of you
Experiment with breath play during sex – Remember to be super safe if you plan on doing this. Make sure to read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you before trying it.
Use ear plugs during sex – Use them to block your/his nose too for extra sensory deprivation
Sex in the workplace
Mile high club – Sex on a plane
Blowjob/Cunnlingus
Suck, kiss & lick your guy’s balls/Suck, kiss & lick your girl’s labia
Give a guy deep throat/Penetrate your girl deeply with your tongue
Handjob/Fingering
Ass fingering
Prostrate massage – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for girls
Give each other a regular massage and then finish it off with a happy ending
Have sex while others watch
Devils threesome – 1 girl and 2 guys
FFM threesome – 2 girls and 1 guy
Have a moresome – Sex with more than 3 people
Go to a swingers party
Sex while drunk
Sex on a mild altering substance – Try to keep it legal!
Go on a date with a skirt, but wearing no panties/briefs
Go on a date without a bra – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for guys
Go on a date with neither a bra or panties – Again there is no equivalent for guys
Go on a date wearing only 1 item of clothing besides your shoes – Would be interested if any guys have actually done this
Footjob
Hair pulling during sex
Use a whip, paddle, riding crop, flogger or belt to spank/flog your partner – Don’t forget to be on the receiving end too!
Get/Leave marks the next day after getting whipped
Rim job - Also called anilingus
Strap on – Also called pegging
Wear heels/boots and nothing else in bed – Guys can wear cowboy boots
Striptease
Sex on the balcony of a very tall building
Sex while watching porn
Sex while using a Swiss ball/yoga ball – The Swiss Miss sex position is a great start
Go to a strip club and get a lap dance – Optionally take your partner
Read erotica together and then act out your favorite sex scenes – Remember, you’re not reading it for the prose, it’s to get ideas for your sex life!
Pearl necklace – When a guy ejaculates onto your neck
Get a facial
Snow capped mountains – When a guy ejaculates onto your ass
Swallow your man’s load
Love biting
Sex in an abandoned building
Sex with the same person in at least 10 States or countries
Sex with someone who speaks a foreign language
Sex with someone else while your partner watches you
Watch your partner having sex with someone else
Have a quickie
Let your partner suck your breasts like a nursing a baby
Sex in silence
Handjob/blowjob/fingering at the movies
Sex in a nightclub/restaurant/bar/pub/public bathroom
Sex at a music festival/concert
Sex on the alter of a church
Silent disco sex – Sex with both of you wearing headphones, listening to your favorite music
Sex(ual) acts with an elected representative – local city council, state senate, even Congress counts!
Rape roleplay
Sex in your parents house
Sex in your parents bed
Use fruit/vegetables or other items to penetrate yourself or your partner with
Use a fucking machine
Go to a munch with your partner – A meetup for your local BDSM community
Read and participate in http://reddit.com/r/sex – A great online community to discover, learn and help others improve their sex lives
Read awesome sex blogs like Sexperts Lounge, Tiny Nibbles and listen to the Savage Love Podcast
Try every position from the Kama Sutra
Learn how to female ejaculate/squirt – Includes your guy learning how to make you ejaculate
Tell each other your fantasies – Don’t forget to act them out too!
Try some roleplaying fantasies with your man – This is perfect before transitioning to your own fantasies
Wear a gag during sex
Kissing in the rain
Sex in front of a roaring fire
Roleplay choking during sex. Just make sure that you do it safely. If you plan on trying it, then I suggest you read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you.
Play with his balls during sex/Rub her clit during sex (Doggystyle is the perfect position for this)
Sensory deprivation during sex – ear plugs, ear plugs in nose, blindfold, mitts, restrained
Wear a collar (not a shirt collar! More like a dog collar)
Use a leash and collar
Sex in complete darkness
Be a maid/butler for a day for your partner, serving their every need
Keep a private blog about your sexcapades with your partner (remember privacy and trust are crucial here)
Sex in front of a mirror
Use handcuffs during sex – On you, on your partner or used to tie you both together
Have rough sex
Sex without touching each other once with your hands
Have a sex weekend – Stay in a really nice hotel, order room service and rarely leave your room for the whole weekend
Sex with a foreigner
Sex in a foreign country
Surprise your partner with strawberries and champagne
Sex on something vibrating – A washing machine or car hood both work well for this. You can even try the Washing Machine sex position
Sex when other people are in the room – They don’t have to know about it though!
Sex on a train
Sex to the rhythm of a metronome – It’s a gadget that sways back and forth and makes a ‘tic’ sound each time. It’s often used by musicians
Sex with at least 2 different people in one day
Sex under the stars
Sex under the sun
Arrive to your man’s house in only heels/boots and a coat. Guys can use cowboy boots here
Be a submissive sex slave to your partner for a night
Climax at the same time
Be a dominant mistress/master of your partner for a night
Sex at a drive-in movie
Have multiple orgasms during sex – Definitely a tough one for guys!
Slowly rub ice over each other (think sensitive areas)
Try queening with your partner
Super-slow, sensual sex
Make up sex
Write erotica that features you and your partner – Don’t forget to get them to read it!
Sex more than 7 times in one day
Go to a sex club
Answer the door naked to your partner
Go to a sex show
Go to a sex convention
Try fisting, either receiving or giving
Use a remote controlled sex toy in public on yourself and each other
Have over 2 hours of foreplay before you have sex
Wake your partner up with a blowjob/cunnlingus
Wake your partner up to full on sex
Sex with someone of the same sex
Tit fucking/camel wank
Use your nails on your partner’s back during sex
Sex at a friend’s house party
Slap your partner across the face during sex – Don’t forget to get slapped too
Bite lips when kissing
Bite your partner’s neck, arms, hands, ear lobes, genitals and the rest of their body – Just remember that some areas are more sensitive than others
Orgasm Control – Control when your partner is allowed to orgasm and vice-versa
Sex in a sex sling
Sex in a tree house – Obviously make sure that there are no kids around!
Sex with a member of the clergy
Sex on furniture designed specifically for sex
Squeeze/Massage/Fondle your partner’s genitals – Make sure to start off gently
Be double penetrated by your man and a sex toy
Be double penetrated by 2 men
Airlock – Double penetrated and giving a blowjob at the same time
Grope your partner in public
Be groped in public
Post naked pictures of you (& your partner) online – Just remember that once you post something online, it’s going to be there forever!
Take pole dancing/stripping classes
Sex against a wall
Sex on the floor
Sex on a couch – The Sofa Spoon position is perfect for this
Give a birthday blowjob/cunnilingus
Kiss your partner for hours without having sex
Kiss, suck, squeeze, pinch and blow on your partner’s nipples
Have an orgasm with the help of your partner without them touching your genitals – This can be very hard for guys to achieve unless they have their prostate massaged
Kiss your partner on the backs of their elbows and knees
Kiss your partner all over their back for more than 10 mins – Using just your lips, no hands or massaging
Rub and massage the perineum – This is the patch of skin between the testicles/vagina and the anus
Have sex in a room full of 100s of candles – Just make sure that nothing can accidentally catch fire
Use a pair of sex dice
Lunchtime sex when working
Play some fun sex games – Here’s some ideas to get you started. Here’s even more!
Pin your partner to the bed and don’t let them get away without getting what you want – Just make sure your partner is consenting!
Wash each other in the shower – Optional Extra: Get into the shower wearing only a light, white t-shirt that will become see through when it’s wet.
Wash your partner in a bath – You’ll find that most bathtubs are too small to both fit in there, so you’ll need to stand out of the bath
Receive oral sex while you are on the phone
Sex in a hot tub/jacuzzi
Sex right after the gym
Tell your partner what you like most about their body
Minty mouthwash before oral sex
Eat some food with aphrodisiac properties – Chocolate, oysters, champagne are a great start
Undress each other
Stare into each others eyes for 5 mins without breaking eye contact – Don’t forget to blink though!
Ass pinching – Try squeezing his ass right as he’s cums. Don’t forget to do it randomly during the day too!
Interlock your fingers with your partner’s during sex
Use your mouth to put a condom on your man
Burn incense during sex
Spitroast
Spend the whole day naked together
Tell your partner, “Do whatever you want to me.” Just remember to use a safe word!
Challenge your man to see who can go the longest without sex (the sexual tension will both drive you crazy with desire!)
Sex in a tunnel – A cave counts too!
Oh yeah, I almost forgot……Lose your virginity