Kick the sub not the bucket
Date: Wednesday, February 05, 2014I was thinking of what I'd like to add to my BDSM Bucket list for 2014 and stumbled upon this Sex Bucket List at The Bad Girl's Bible Sex Bucket List. I've bolded the ones I've completed, there are quite a few. Skip to the bottom to see how many and what the sub and I have in store for the year!
Miss L's 2014 Bucket List (things to try before the end of the year)
The sub's 2014 Bucket List
The Bad Girl’s Bible Sex Bucket List
- Wake your partner up with a handjob/fingering
- Kiss a girl
- Sex with a celebrity
- Sex without kissing
- Loud, vocal, screaming sex
- Masturbate
- Finger yourself
- Use a vibrator
- Use a dildo
- Insert a butt plug/anal beads while masturbating
- Use Ben Wa balls
- Masturbate to porn
- Masturbate in candlelight
- Take someones virginity
- Have a one night stand
- Get a fuck buddy – You’ll probably need to be single for this!
- Sex with someone old enough to be your dad/mom
- Sex with someone young enough to be your son/daughter – Remember to keep it legal!
- Sex with someone of a different race
- Sex with someone who speaks a different language to you
- Sex with someone smaller than you
- Sex with someone taller than you
- Resistance sex – You act like you don’t want it while your man gropes, touches and molests you (don’t forget to use a safe word)
- Sex with an escort
- Sex with an Olympic athlete
- Sex beside/under a large waterfall
- Sex with a complete stranger
- Listen to music on your stereo while having sex
- Go see a male strip show
- Have break up sex
- Finger yourself or masturbate in front of someone without them knowing what you are doing – Try to keep it legal!
- Go skinny dipping
- Try every sex position – These 119 positions, with photos should get you going!
- Try anal sex
- Send/receive dirty text messages aka sex messages
- Make a homemade porno – Trust is crucial if you make your own porno. You obviously don’t want it getting online!
- Send/receive dirty pictures of each other – Again trust is crucial if you do this. You probably don’t want the whole world seeing naked pictures of you.
- Talk dirty to each other
- Have phone sex
- Have Skype sex / cyber sex
- Have snail mail sex – You can do this even if you live together, it makes for a very sexy surprise
- Sex in the shower
- Sex in the ocean
- Sex on a beach – Bring a rug! Sand getting where it’s not supposed to be can be very painful
- Sex in a car
- Give your man a blowjob while he is driving – Unfortunately it’s hard for him to return the favour and eat you out while you are driving
- Give your guy a handjob/finger your girl while they are driving
- Sex in an elevator
- Sex in the rain
- Sex in the desert
- Use ice/frozen berries in your mouth while giving oral sex
- Sex in a hotel room
- Sex in every room in your house
- Sex in a forest
- Sex in a department store changing room
- Sex in public
- Sex while wearing lingerie
- Sex while in costume
- Eat food off each other – Whipped cream and fruit is great for this (but a little sticky). Anything oily or fishy is not, it stinks.
- Give your partner oral sex using syrup, cream, honey, lube or some other liquid on their genitals
- Masturbate in front of each other
- Mutually masturbate each other. He fingers you while you give him a handjob
- Sex while blindfolded
- Sex with restraints – Arms tied behind back or tied to the bed or tied and bent over a chair/table. Don’t forget to swap roles!
- Spank and get spanked by hand
- Make out in front of others in a busy place
- Play strip poker
- Sex on a boat – The smaller the better. Sex on a cruise ship is easy as everyone has a cabin. Sex on a dinghy on the other hand…
- Use a vibrator during sex
- Use a dildo during sex
- Use a butt plug during sex
- Toe sucking – You might want to wash them first!
- Use anal beads during sex
- Put a cock ring on your man during sex – Vibrating cock ring optional
- Use a chastity device for at least a day before sex – On yourself, your partner or both of you
- Use nipple clamps during sex – On you or on your partner or on both of you
- Experiment with breath play during sex – Remember to be super safe if you plan on doing this. Make sure to read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you before trying it.
- Use ear plugs during sex – Use them to block your/his nose too for extra sensory deprivation
- Sex in the workplace
- Mile high club – Sex on a plane
- Blowjob/Cunnlingus
- Suck, kiss & lick your guy’s balls/Suck, kiss & lick your girl’s labia
- Give a guy deep throat/Penetrate your girl deeply with your tongue
- Handjob/Fingering
- Ass fingering
- Prostrate massage – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for girls
- Give each other a regular massage and then finish it off with a happy ending
- Have sex while others watch
- Devils threesome – 1 girl and 2 guys
- FFM threesome – 2 girls and 1 guy
- Have a moresome – Sex with more than 3 people
- Go to a swingers party
- Sex while drunk
- Sex on a mild altering substance – Try to keep it legal!
- Go on a date with a skirt, but wearing no panties/briefs
- Go on a date without a bra – Unfortunately there is no equivalent for guys
- Go on a date with neither a bra or panties – Again there is no equivalent for guys
- Go on a date wearing only 1 item of clothing besides your shoes – Would be interested if any guys have actually done this
- Footjob
- Hair pulling during sex
- Use a whip, paddle, riding crop, flogger or belt to spank/flog your partner – Don’t forget to be on the receiving end too!
- Get/Leave marks the next day after getting whipped
- Rim job - Also called anilingus
- Strap on – Also called pegging
- Wear heels/boots and nothing else in bed – Guys can wear cowboy boots
- Striptease
- Sex on the balcony of a very tall building
- Sex while watching porn
- Sex while using a Swiss ball/yoga ball – The Swiss Miss sex position is a great start
- Go to a strip club and get a lap dance – Optionally take your partner
- Read erotica together and then act out your favorite sex scenes – Remember, you’re not reading it for the prose, it’s to get ideas for your sex life!
- Pearl necklace – When a guy ejaculates onto your neck
- Get a facial
- Snow capped mountains – When a guy ejaculates onto your ass
- Swallow your man’s load
- Love biting
- Sex in an abandoned building
- Sex with the same person in at least 10 States or countries
- Sex with someone who speaks a foreign language
- Sex with someone else while your partner watches you
- Watch your partner having sex with someone else
- Have a quickie
- Let your partner suck your breasts like a nursing a baby
- Sex in silence
- Handjob/blowjob/fingering at the movies
- Sex in a nightclub/restaurant/bar/pub/public bathroom
- Sex at a music festival/concert
- Sex on the alter of a church
- Silent disco sex – Sex with both of you wearing headphones, listening to your favorite music
- Sex(ual) acts with an elected representative – local city council, state senate, even Congress counts!
- Rape roleplay
- Sex in your parents house
- Sex in your parents bed
- Use fruit/vegetables or other items to penetrate yourself or your partner with
- Use a fucking machine
- Go to a munch with your partner – A meetup for your local BDSM community
- Read and participate in http://reddit.com/r/sex – A great online community to discover, learn and help others improve their sex lives
- Read awesome sex blogs like Sexperts Lounge, Tiny Nibbles and listen to the Savage Love Podcast
- Try every position from the Kama Sutra
- Learn how to female ejaculate/squirt – Includes your guy learning how to make you ejaculate
- Tell each other your fantasies – Don’t forget to act them out too!
- Try some roleplaying fantasies with your man – This is perfect before transitioning to your own fantasies
- Wear a gag during sex
- Kissing in the rain
- Sex in front of a roaring fire
- Roleplay choking during sex. Just make sure that you do it safely. If you plan on trying it, then I suggest you read Jay Wiseman’s article on it to guide you.
- Play with his balls during sex/Rub her clit during sex (Doggystyle is the perfect position for this)
- Sensory deprivation during sex – ear plugs, ear plugs in nose, blindfold, mitts, restrained
- Wear a collar (not a shirt collar! More like a dog collar)
- Use a leash and collar
- Sex in complete darkness
- Be a maid/butler for a day for your partner, serving their every need
- Keep a private blog about your sexcapades with your partner (remember privacy and trust are crucial here)
- Sex in front of a mirror
- Use handcuffs during sex – On you, on your partner or used to tie you both together
- Have rough sex
- Sex without touching each other once with your hands
- Have a sex weekend – Stay in a really nice hotel, order room service and rarely leave your room for the whole weekend
- Sex with a foreigner
- Sex in a foreign country
- Surprise your partner with strawberries and champagne
- Sex on something vibrating – A washing machine or car hood both work well for this. You can even try the Washing Machine sex position
- Sex when other people are in the room – They don’t have to know about it though!
- Sex on a train
- Sex to the rhythm of a metronome – It’s a gadget that sways back and forth and makes a ‘tic’ sound each time. It’s often used by musicians
- Sex with at least 2 different people in one day
- Sex under the stars
- Sex under the sun
- Arrive to your man’s house in only heels/boots and a coat. Guys can use cowboy boots here
- Be a submissive sex slave to your partner for a night
- Climax at the same time
- Be a dominant mistress/master of your partner for a night
- Sex at a drive-in movie
- Have multiple orgasms during sex – Definitely a tough one for guys!
- Slowly rub ice over each other (think sensitive areas)
- Try queening with your partner
- Super-slow, sensual sex
- Make up sex
- Write erotica that features you and your partner – Don’t forget to get them to read it!
- Sex more than 7 times in one day
- Go to a sex club
- Answer the door naked to your partner
- Go to a sex show
- Go to a sex convention
- Try fisting, either receiving or giving
- Use a remote controlled sex toy in public on yourself and each other
- Have over 2 hours of foreplay before you have sex
- Wake your partner up with a blowjob/cunnlingus
- Wake your partner up to full on sex
- Sex with someone of the same sex
- Tit fucking/camel wank
- Use your nails on your partner’s back during sex
- Sex at a friend’s house party
- Slap your partner across the face during sex – Don’t forget to get slapped too
- Bite lips when kissing
- Bite your partner’s neck, arms, hands, ear lobes, genitals and the rest of their body – Just remember that some areas are more sensitive than others
- Orgasm Control – Control when your partner is allowed to orgasm and vice-versa
- Sex in a sex sling
- Sex in a tree house – Obviously make sure that there are no kids around!
- Sex with a member of the clergy
- Sex on furniture designed specifically for sex
- Squeeze/Massage/Fondle your partner’s genitals – Make sure to start off gently
- Be double penetrated by your man and a sex toy
- Be double penetrated by 2 men
- Airlock – Double penetrated and giving a blowjob at the same time
- Grope your partner in public
- Be groped in public
- Post naked pictures of you (& your partner) online – Just remember that once you post something online, it’s going to be there forever!
- Take pole dancing/stripping classes
- Sex against a wall
- Sex on the floor
- Sex on a couch – The Sofa Spoon position is perfect for this
- Give a birthday blowjob/cunnilingus
- Kiss your partner for hours without having sex
- Kiss, suck, squeeze, pinch and blow on your partner’s nipples
- Have an orgasm with the help of your partner without them touching your genitals – This can be very hard for guys to achieve unless they have their prostate massaged
- Kiss your partner on the backs of their elbows and knees
- Kiss your partner all over their back for more than 10 mins – Using just your lips, no hands or massaging
- Rub and massage the perineum – This is the patch of skin between the testicles/vagina and the anus
- Have sex in a room full of 100s of candles – Just make sure that nothing can accidentally catch fire
- Use a pair of sex dice
- Lunchtime sex when working
- Play some fun sex games – Here’s some ideas to get you started. Here’s even more!
- Pin your partner to the bed and don’t let them get away without getting what you want – Just make sure your partner is consenting!
- Wash each other in the shower – Optional Extra: Get into the shower wearing only a light, white t-shirt that will become see through when it’s wet.
- Wash your partner in a bath – You’ll find that most bathtubs are too small to both fit in there, so you’ll need to stand out of the bath
- Receive oral sex while you are on the phone
- Sex in a hot tub/jacuzzi
- Sex right after the gym
- Tell your partner what you like most about their body
- Minty mouthwash before oral sex
- Eat some food with aphrodisiac properties – Chocolate, oysters, champagne are a great start
- Undress each other
- Stare into each others eyes for 5 mins without breaking eye contact – Don’t forget to blink though!
- Ass pinching – Try squeezing his ass right as he’s cums. Don’t forget to do it randomly during the day too!
- Interlock your fingers with your partner’s during sex
- Use your mouth to put a condom on your man
- Burn incense during sex
- Spitroast
- Spend the whole day naked together
- Tell your partner, “Do whatever you want to me.” Just remember to use a safe word!
- Challenge your man to see who can go the longest without sex (the sexual tension will both drive you crazy with desire!)
- Sex in a tunnel – A cave counts too!
- Oh yeah, I almost forgot……Lose your virginity
That's 177 out of 244, told ya I was dirty :)
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Miss L's 2014 Bucket List (things to try before the end of the year)
- More outdoor play with new submissive
- Schedule an kinky photo shoot for update pictures
- Construct and use my own spreader bar
- A scene involving me cutting clothes off my sub’s body
The sub's 2014 Bucket List
- Have a violet wand used on me
- Play at a club/event outside of the DMV area
- Anal insertion/Dildo used on me (I promise to try at least once)
- Tortured without sight or sound (so I can't see or hear when you’re going to hurt me)
