I say tomato...
In the past I've said that online based domination and D/s relationships were not my cup of tea. However with my trip looming on the horizon communicating via online thru emails, web cam, and instant messaging is the only feasible way to get to know anyone.
In addition to a few contacts I already had I've began talking to an array of interesting gentlemen; 4 submissives, and two switches.
I hate to be so rashly observant but in my contacts with the British men has been much more pleasant than with the guys here. They are polite, courteous, witty, and just all around a pleasure to chat with. Even when sending the inappropriate penis picture to me the sender politely apologized for his rudeness haha. That's not to say there aren't any guys here who possess those exact characteristics it's just I haven't been experiencing that online.
It has been an interesting way to flex my creative ability in thinking of ways to show my domination while I'm 3,600 miles away. Explicitly explaining the tease and tantalization that I want to put them thru, sharing naughty pictures, and just plainly getting to know them has seemed to work well thus far.
I'm hoping that they will live up to their online identities and by live up to I mean follow thru on our loose plans to meet up. I've promised myself that I am going to make more of an effort to take part in the local scene when I get that than I do here. I'm going in with an open mind and a desire to explore possibilities.
In addition to a few contacts I already had I've began talking to an array of interesting gentlemen; 4 submissives, and two switches.
I hate to be so rashly observant but in my contacts with the British men has been much more pleasant than with the guys here. They are polite, courteous, witty, and just all around a pleasure to chat with. Even when sending the inappropriate penis picture to me the sender politely apologized for his rudeness haha. That's not to say there aren't any guys here who possess those exact characteristics it's just I haven't been experiencing that online.
It has been an interesting way to flex my creative ability in thinking of ways to show my domination while I'm 3,600 miles away. Explicitly explaining the tease and tantalization that I want to put them thru, sharing naughty pictures, and just plainly getting to know them has seemed to work well thus far.
I'm hoping that they will live up to their online identities and by live up to I mean follow thru on our loose plans to meet up. I've promised myself that I am going to make more of an effort to take part in the local scene when I get that than I do here. I'm going in with an open mind and a desire to explore possibilities.
4 comments:
Ah, you will be here soon! I know I've been pretty pathetic with the whole online thing in general lately, but I do look forward to meeting you IRL, really. And with you being ever the popular one, it also sounds like you have a ton lined up. As for going in with an open mind, there is no better way to approach things ;-)
I hope that your expectations are met fully :) Have a good trip x
I look forward to seeing you on the scene over here and thanks for the compliments for my fellow Brits.
I see that you have joined IC (Informed Consent) and that is a wise move.
Ideas and meeting people is so much more easily facilitated by doing just as you have done.
When you come over don't let them define you by colour or your nationality.
Femsup
Good luck with your meetings; I seem to scare mine away with the reality of the situation. I hope you are more successful than I.
M
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