The polycule breakdown

As many of my readers know I am involved in a polyamorous relationship. There's me in the eye of the storm, my vanilla...

The secret life of a sub

She gives me a stern look while we sit on the couch. I wait for corrective action in the form of a face slap, a forceful...

Measuring up for Mistress

He can't satisfy me and that's okay...well at least not with his cock. It's been no secret that since I became sexually...

The domesticated Domme

The role of Susie Homemaker has never appealed to me. I hate dishes I loathe ironing And window washing?! Death by watching...

More than puppy love

I've written and re-written this entry about my meeting with my English puppy but nothing has felt right. Nothing has been...

Lustful wet

I want him. Hard, fast, deep...with me. Inside me. Any way I can get. Any way that has my hands around his throat and...

40 Days and 40 Nights

"What's the longest you've ever gone without cumming?"  "Erm, it was 8 days Mistress." I said nervously into the phone.  'Hahahahahaha!"...

Breaking the habit

"I want to do the most disgusting fucked up shit with you," he said with a sigh into the telephone. I squeezed my eyes...

Podcast - Episode 4 -"Consent Violation & Privacy"

This week we're getting deep into 'Consent Violation' & 'Privacy Among Kinksters'. I'll also answer one Kinky Question of The Day (KQOTD) from a reader.

Here are the podcast highlights...

** 00:28 - Consent, consent violations, and consensual non-consent

** 15:55 - Scene names and how to keep yourself/identity protected

** 23:34 - Kinky Question of The Day "What are some warm-up techniques before play?"

** 27:30 - Next week's topics---Poly, mono-poly, and navigating the scene as a non-poly person

Links
Consent & BDSM: The State of Law

Feel free to listen below...

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FemDom: Not all it's pegged up to be

I am a FemDom. For all intent purposes. I am a female dominant who controls the relationships I am in through the use...

A Weekend reunion

It was a welcome change of pace: My first ever big kink event outside of a dungeon and I was surrounded by a large number...

Podcast Episode 3 -"Sub care & hard limits"

On this week's episode we'll talk about the 'Subspace, Subdrop, & Aftercare' and 'Hard & Soft Limits". I'll also answer one Kinky Question of The Day (KQOTD) from a reader.

Here are the podcast highlights...

** 01:03 - Understanding subspace, subdrop and the importance of aftercare/aftercare techniques

** 13:35 - How to identify and establish hard and soft limits

** 21:33 - Kinky Question of The Day "What's a good Mistress name for myself?"

** 27:01 - Next week's topics---Consent violation and maintaining privacy while in the scene

Feel free to listen below...


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Podcast - Episode 2 -"What's Your Kinky Role"

Our second episode covers different kinky roles and good places on the web to meet fellow kinksters. I'll also answer one Kinky Question of The Day (KQOTD) from a reader.

Here are the podcast highlights...

 ** 00:32 - Different kinky roles and their distinctions

 ** 14:32 - Where are the best places on the web to meet fellow kinksters?

Try these sites
ALT.com
Fetlife.com
Collarspace.com
Adultfriendfinder.com
Swinglifestyle.com
Craigslist.org
OkCupid.com

** 24:27- Kinky Question of The Day "I found BDSM porn on my son's computer. What should I do?" 

** 31:34 - Next week's topics---Subspace, sub drop and aftercare. Hard and soft limits and how to enforce them.

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Podcast - Episode 1 -"The 50 Shades Effect"

On our very first episode we'll talk about the '50 Shades Effect' and the difference between being Kinky vs. Freaky. I'll also answer one Kinky Question of The Day (KQOTD) from a reader.

Here are the podcast highlights...

** 00:56 - 50 Shades Effect & staying safe in your local community

** 12:15 - Is there a difference between being kinky or just being freaky?

** 15:14 - Kinky Question of The Day "What can I call my fiance during play?"

** 21:56 - Next week's topics---Various kink roles and places around the web to meet fellow kinksters

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I make the rules

After my last entry I took some time with the boy to talk about where we were going and where we had been with our kinky...

When nothing goes right...go left!

I keep looking at my scarcely updated blog and wondering why the slump? I've been in them before but they usually fix...

Not just an afterthought

I don't usually make any big mistakes as a dominant, that's not to say I still don't have  areas to improve in,...