I dare you

I knew what he wanted but I wouldn't give it to him. He carefully placed his hand under my blanket now, rubbing just the...

Rant: Big girls don't cry

I have a right to be choosy. I can choose who kneels for me... who kisses my heels... who worships my body... and more...

Dude looks like a lady

Congressman: I missed you. Miss L: You only think you did. CM: No, really I did. ML: Prove it. CM: Ha, you love having...

The twilight zone

After my trip to London I feel a bit empty. Aside from my personal issues while there my scene experience was great...too...

Go tweet yourself

Okay, it's official...I've joined the masses. Follow me over on TwitterDon't have an account? Create one and partake in...

Birthday wishes (Part 2)

I had invited quiet sub, I knew he was coming...I just wasn't prepared for it. We had some good sessions but then things...

In the meantime...Birthday wishes (Part 1)

Did I tell you the one about my birthday....? Birthdays and spankings go together like lace and leather, so it should...

Life happens

Well I arrived in the UK last weekend and have left this weekend. This was much shorter than the couple months I planned...

Rant: Polyamory is not a bad word

Listen up men of the interwebs...swingers ≠ polyamorous  I have a few profiles floating around online and all...

I say tomato...

In the past I've said that online based domination and D/s relationships were not my cup of tea. However with my trip looming...

I'm too sexy for this blog

I like to think I don't need validation that my blog is sexy and rather kick-ass but every girl likes a little attention...

Flirting: A fine art

I've often said that I believe flirting should be treated as a fine art. It is not something one can wander into with no...

Exactly what the doctor ordered

Anyone who lives in this area knows that underestimating traffic can mean the difference between making your movie date...

59 days never felt so long

I have mentioned to a few of you individually but I am making it officially known that I will be traveling overseas at the...

Is that a banana in your pocket...

..Or are you just happy to see me? I love it when the guys I chat with online send me requested sweet nothings. It...

30 Days of Kink (Pt. 5)

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks? I'm relatively open about who I am and what I do in general. I don't hide my...

30 Days of Kink (Pt. 4)

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? My main peeve is when people take themselves too seriously in my opinion. A shining...

30 Days of Kink (Pt. 3)

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of...

30 Days of Kink (Pt. 2)

Day 5. What was your first kinky sexual experience? Hmm...I would have to say it back in my teens. My senior year of high...

30 Days of Kink

This month I'd like to reflect on my inner kink. I've seen this floating around the web for some time now and decided to...

Shake your money maker

The thumpa-thumpa that is synonymous with clubs rallied around me, piercing my veins. I love that feeling. The feeling...

When the going gets tough

...some "submissives" do too. A few of you noticed the lack of test results up Sunday and for good reason. I'd like to...

Up, up, and away

Even while jet-setting writer sub continues to be a good little panty boy for his Mistress....

"Rules, Rituals, & Protocol" test results (Week 6)

I am a firm but loving Mistress and I like things the way I like things.

Which is why this week's training was one of my favorite topics to cover. I must admit that writer sub and I have interacted in a rather relaxed form of D/s thus far. He is free to speak and express ideas openly. He may ask for permission to do something but once granted admission he may stand, walk, and get whatever it is he's requested with no limitations. While I want to maintain his ability to flourish as his own submissive, I need him to be structured enough to be my submissive. Without certain rituals, rules, and protocols we are merely scratching the surface of all we could be.

So this week I have implicated and taught him the following:

-An "Entrance Ritual" that is to be performed anytime time he sees me for the first time of the day.

-An "Exit Ritual" that is used whenever he is leaving my presence for the day.

-Certain speech restrictions---he may no longer use the following words: No, Why, Me, I, My, or Mine but is to simply refer to himself as "your submissive".

Also in place are other general rules and I have enlightened him on the three levels of D/s protocol: Low, High, and Social.

I tested him in the following areas and I still enjoy the "Exit Ritual" the most...

Step 1: Upon completing daily duties, recite your closing to your Mistress: "I have completed my duties today Mistress and request to leave if there is nothing further you require?"

Step 2: Kiss your Mistress's feet or shoes

Step 3: If Mistress dismisses you, retrieve clothing and put it on, then kneel

Step 4: Await Mistress to remove your collar, once collar is removed you are free to leave

...as there's just something about having a submissive on hands and knees kissing my feet.

All of our hard work is paying off as writer sub kept his streak of success going.


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Total Score :        90 /100        Pass     

Next week we will focus on "Communication" and afterward there is only one special week of training left. It's all quite exciting!

All dressed up with somewhere to go

For me I've never been typically attracted to the "manly" man. I tend to gravitate toward guys who I can fantasize about...

"Etiquette" training test results (Week 5)

Etiquette can always be a odd thing to learn, especially for the completely unrefined. When I was an unruly teenager I was sent to Finishing School in the hopes that it would tame whatever mischievous beast was growling within me...let's just say it didn't completely work as planned. It just made me a pretentious bad ass and evolved into my love for etiquette as an adult. Just more ways for me to prove I have better manners than you hehe.

Lucky  for me my little subbie is a sponge who is good (and hopefully enjoys) absorbing all the knowledge I am instilling on him and that's exactly what he did for the training. He was tested on his Written, Oral (get your mind out of the gutter!), Service and Appearance etiquette.

His appearance was acceptable except for his un-tucked shirt, his newly taught greetings and introductions were spot on, he replicated the following casual dining placement even when I threw in decoy dishes and utensils...

And his written etiquette was perfectly understood and penned with the following handwritten "Thank You" letter attached within his test:

Dear Miss L,

Thank you for training me this week. I appreciate all the time and effort you put into making me a better sub. Your creativity and originality is a pleasure, and I am glad I have been given a chance to experience that with you.

Your submissive in training,
writer sub



Continually exceeding my expectations he passed with flying colors with this score...

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Total Score :        95 /100        Pass      


Ooh, next week with my favorite friends Rules, Rituals, and Protocols should be delightfully strict.

Just say when

Some friends of mine had a heated debate regarding safewords. Some people hate safewords, feeling that they restrict the...

"Roleplaying" test results (Week 4)

Roleplaying for me is like a lavish meal, if all the details aren't in place it falls flat like biscuits with no butter. So this week's training was especially a fun one for me as anytime I get to flex my creative skills I'm happy. Thru a convoluted series of questions and mysterious phone calls I narrowed writer sub and I's two roleplaying scenarios down for the week.

First up, we had Mad Scientist/Experimentee. This was the first time I'd ever really roleplayed something like this but it turned out fun for us both. My idea of a mad scientist teetered between Magic School Bus wacky and something that would make Doc Brown smile. Thankfully my "experimentee" took it all like a good little patient.

Secondly we roleplayed Secret Past/Blackmailer. In this instance I had some damaging information about his character and he had to convince me not to release it within his personal and professional life. This one was done solely with a webcam, messenger, and our cellphones. I actually took on the role of a male blackmailer which was an interesting twist that I hadn't planned beforehand.

During the week I as well asked him to read some designated material on roleplaying and its nuances and he was tested on the reading and his roleplaying performances (was he convincing? did he stay in character? did he make good use of costumes or props? etc).

No extra credit was given this week. Those have been privileges that I've afforded him. I also threw in some submissive position review and much to my surprise writer sub hadn't forgotten them!

That's why it's no surprise my star pupil scored well above the minimum passing grade of a 75% with a score of...

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Total Score :        95 /100        Pass     


You've passed the halfway mark with flying colors writer sub!! I'm so proud of you. I hope you're ready for your Etiquette training next week =)

Sadie? Check! Sexy? Double check!

If you don't know who Miss Sexie Sadie is then educate yourself. The short version: She's a fellow sexy Blogger who has...