Rant: Why so serious?

Recently a guy told me that he was giving up BDSM after his first experience with me because I didn’t provide him with what...

Breasts, can't live with them....or can you?

I’ve nicknamed my breasts “Thelma & Louise” (bet you can’t guess which is which!) because these girls are always getting...

Married without children

I use to have another blog on this site that I used primarily for meticulously detailed information on how I was training...

No harm no foul

"Hunting" season is officially over. I wish I could say I was sad to see it go but I am exhausted from my interview-esque...

Xdressing: Confusing fun for all

A few weekends ago I had the pleasure of attending my first crossing dressing party. I've been to cross dressing events...

Sex Toy Review: G Female Stimulating Gel

Recently I was approached to conduct reviews for the sex toy site TheirToys. I mean really beyond hearing I'd get free samples...

Getting to know you

With a little under two weeks left for my sub-hunt things have started to pick up a bit for me. I am definitely interacting...

While the cat's away, the yuppies will play

I definitely get the phrase "a New York minute" after visiting this week. The city was enthralling, bustling, and confusing...

A hard day's night

I've had an interesting past couple of weeks. I've been really trying to get out and meet some new people, subs, switches,...

Ask Miss a stupid question, you know you want to...

I wanted to thank everyone who participated in "Ask A Stupid Question Day", and apologize for the lateness. I didn't think...

A little eye candy

A friend I've made recently via Fetlife sent me lovely pictures after his play session this weekend. He knows that I have...

What women want

...I actually don't know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what...

Questions, questions, questions

For those of you who are unaware, September 30th is "Ask A Stupid Question Day". I always enjoy answering questions from...

Blowjob: It's not always better than nojob

I had an interesting conversation last week via email where a friend of mine mentioned that he was happy to receive a blowjob...

It'll only hurt worse if you...

Miss L finally stopped being anti-social last night and headed out to the city for a night with some fellow BDSM fans and...

My sexual pickles & ice cream

I'm climbing the walls with an over 6 month dry spanking spell on my theoretical heels. This may seem unusual or very usual...

Under Mistress L's Spell

Mistress L gives me the look that says, "Sit down and shut up." I'm already doing that but I still feel scolded when she...

Wearing the fishnet pants...

People often ask me as a Mistress what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is. As...

From fag hag to mound muncher?

Bisexuality is not a bad word. To clarify, no one has told me that it was...it's just that up until recently I have done...